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I would never say “Well I could never date that person, they are “insert race here” becasue that would be… well racist lol!

Really, would you say “well that person is smart, funny good looking and I love being around them, but darned they don’t have red hair, oh well can’t date them” That would just be silly!

Black women are not some monolithic group, you have African American women, women from the islands, from Africa (very different from country to country), and you have black women of mixed race. We are so diverse that the idea that you can’t date us because you are just not attracted to black women is laughable. We range in color from golden to midnight black, news flash we are people just like you…. We are rich, poor, well educated, not well educated. Loud, quiet and so on.

This is true of every race under the sun.

To those whining about the test and the possibility that OMG because I don’t date people of other races I might gasp be racist” grow up for crying out loud. So you might have racist tendencies deal with it!

It is interesting, in my case, I answer all my mail because it is polite to do so, but there is also the possibility that because I have so few matches it is easier to do so?

But this is a good thing, why on earth would I want to date someone who is as shallow as not to date someone ONLY because of their race?

October 16, 2009 at 9:38 pm
Holm says:
The hidden stereotypes I grew up with: