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Why can’t guys just put themselves out there? When a girl tells her girlfriend, “oh, I’m not sure what we’re doing, I don’t know if we are dating… We’re just ‘hanging out.’” To all the other girls, it sounds like a booty call. Or a friends with benefits thing.

You said, “the key is to make the girl question your interest in her.” That sounds like a bunch of games. I don’t know, it’s never worked for me. I was always more likely to fall for the guy who just went for it, the guy where I didn’t have any doubt that he was interested.

Not knowing your intentions is the way to build attraction? I think the opposite. I take the stance that attraction builds by a strong pursuit and a very clear intention, as long as it’s done with an air of confidence like if she says “no” it won’t break you.

Your interpretation of “uncertainty,” I interpret as cowardly insecurity, a guy so afraid of rejection, he can’t even let a woman know clearly that he is interested.

Jordan Says:
April 12th, 2012 at 3:23 pm
MidoriLei

There is nothing wrong with a guy putting them self out there. You say that it is cowardly to beat around the bush, well here is the problem, most people (not just men) are cowards. They are too afraid to face any of their fears. The fear of rejection hovering around the top.